Hardly any day passes without news
of rape. I have tried to complain within and to close friends until the
news came with the story of a girl who was gang raped and then buried
alive in bonny island area of my own Rivers state! watch video below:
The
series of rape cases prevalent in our environment has become worrisome.
Little children are no longer safe as people old enough to be their
fathers and grand fathers take advantage of their innocence and
ignorance to violate them at will. The story featured here on Nigerian
eye is a case in point: read the story here:http://www.nigerianeye.com/2013/04/s-h-o-c-k-e-r-rape-victim-remanded.html
Adults
are not left out as ladies and young girls are being coerced into sex
without their consent. The matter has become a national issue that
deserves the attention of each and everyone of us. The collective effort
of every responsible citizen of this country is needed to successfully
curtail this devilish acts. Do not say it does not concern you, if it
does not concern you today, it may concern you tomorrow. The next victim
is never announced and we only hear of those incidents that have some
how found their way to the media or social networks i.e internet be
rest assured that so many of these incidents happen without being
publicized.
THE SOLUTION
The solution to this problem is many fold.
1.
There is need for offenders to receive the condign punishment. Yes,
personally, i think capital punishment is not a bad idea so as to
discourage people from the act.
2.There
is need for early sex education. Children should be taught early about
sensitive body parts. They must be instructed to report if anyone
touches them there or uses certain words. People including close
relatives should be discouraged from playing some certain kind of plays
with the children. For example, plays involving kissing or touching of
sensitive body organs. Children should be monitored properly. For
example, you can go through their clothes regularly (to spot suspicious
stains). As parents you reserve the right to stop your kids from playing
with people whom you suspect to be of questionable character.
3.
It is important for parents to develop a close releationship with
their children. This way, the children can easily report any anomaly in
the behaviour of people around them. Parents should keep close watch
onthe company their children keep.
4.Adult
females who are up to the age of being able to select their friends
should choose their company wisely. The bible's advise that evil
communication corrupts good manners is still valid. Many females have
guys as their best friends and for good reasons too. However, it is
neccessaryto clearly define the boundary between normal play and
excesses.
5. When a guy
or group of guys try to woo you, it is expected that you politely turn
down the offer instead of raining abuses and using challenging words as
the guys will naturally want to prove they are stronger.
6.
One of the most important single factor responsible for the rape of our
young ladies is indecent dressing. As it is well known and established,
men are moved by what they see. Sexually suggestive dressing will
ignite the fire of desire and some men can go any length to satisfy that
desire even if it includes rape
7.
Flirting is another common reason for rape among young ladies. Many
young girls have formed the habit of going out with men whom they
promise sex and refuse giving it when the men finally demand for it.
Some men are not ready to let goof their hard earned cash and will go at
any length to get back their money.
8.
Although this list of tips for tackling rape is by no means exhaustive,
it will go a long way to curb the menace. However, I think the ultimate
solution is ethical reorientation. Men must realize that rape is a sin
against God and humanity. I see no pleasure to be derived from
rape;forceful sex without play and emotion. The physical and
psychological damage done to the victim is far more than the few minutes
of pleasure you can gain. Furthermore, you can imagine if the victim
were to be your sister, wife, daughter or mother!!!
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